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Table A: "Enjoy!" - Sex and fun! more >>
This game is created as an intimate relationships improvement tool. The goal is to get better sex and more fun in intimate relationships. The idea is make it easier to express thoughts, desires, feelings and imagination.
Not an option: hygiene and protection. Very welcome: love, respect and trust as well as mutual understanding. No means NO! All involved should be of a legal age.

Legal age? 18+? >>
If you are under the age of majority in your state, county, province or country, if such material offends you or if it's illegal to use such material in your community, please do not continue. It should be valid for all involved.

Set up the appropriate place >>
Where - any place with an acceptable level of safety, commodity and peace for all involved. Who - anyone searching for better sex and more fun.

Go through all the scenarios, both the ones you want and don't want. >>
Think about the scenarios you have already tried, or just heard or read about. Imagine different possibilities. Check your attitude towards them. Create a message for your partner!

Set the scenario using the cards or write it down. >>
Prepare a scenario from "Body part", "Action" and "Spice"(optional) card on the chosen place.
"Body part" card defines on which part of the body of the passive partner the action will be done. The "Action" could be: massage, licking, kissing... "Spice" can (or not) be added to any scenario. If you miss a term, write it inside an additional box.

Check the text by the arrows on your side of the table and put the scenario in an appropriate place. >>
Depending on your attitude towards a particular scenario, choose a place that best fits:
- "This is what I want"
- "I like this, but do not go too far";- "I could like it, try, but be careful"
- "I dislike this, so remember for the future"
- "I want to do it to my partner; my partner can move it to her/his side and place on appropriate place depending of her/his attitude towards it"
- "I think it could be interesting to try; my partner can move it to her/his side and place on appropriate place"
- I don't want to do it to my partner (only I can change it)"

Prepare and set the rest of the scenarios >>
Prepare as many scenarios as you wish. You can prepare a single one-as a theme for the evening. You can also put some additional objects by your choice nearby. It can be oil, hot chocolate, ice...

Show them to your partner >>
If you do it at the same time, it is already shown. You can put it for her/him to look at alone. For the online version, you can send it as foreplay. When and how to show it, is up to you. Surprise your partner. Be brave but reasonable. Surprise yourself.

Get involved and enjoy. >>
Look at partner side. See her/his desires she/he showed to you. Respect it. Experiment! Satisfy yourself. Satisfy your partner. Remember (save) for the next time.
Add or remove scenarios. Respond to your partners scenarios.
Enjoy!

Let the game play itself out. >>
Finish the game spontaneously is the best way...

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Any instructions (except legal ones) are subject to change and adjustment. Think about your partner and yourselves >>

Table B: "The card chooses!" - Sex and fun! more >>
The intention of this game is to laugh and have fun, and possibly sex at the end. Not an option: hygiene and protection. Very welcome: love, respect and trust as well as mutual understanding. No means NO! All involved should be of a legal age.

Legal age? 18+? >>
If you are under the age of majority in your state, county, province or country, if such material offends you or if it's illegal to use such material in your community, please do not continue. It should be valid for all involved.

Set up the appropriate place >>
Where - any place with an acceptable level of safety, commodity and peace for all involved. Who - anyone searching for better sex and more fun.

Choose a level: "Dressed", "Soft", "Harder" >>
Depending on the people involved, their age, sex, orientation and relations between them, the level of the game should be chosen, as well as the boundaries. Available levels: "Dressed" (without undressing, for a laugh, fun and warming up), "Soft" (partial undressing, particular activities and body parts excluded) and "Harder"(all except personal boundaries).

Define the boundaries >>
Boundaries: every partner should say her/his off-limits, general excluded activities, excluded activities to a particular partner or sex. All involved should respect personal boundaries.
No means No!
Later in the game, the level and the general boundaries can be changed, but only if all involved agree. Anyway, personal boundaries always have higher priority.

Create a couple of scenarios >>
Depending on your attitude towards a particular scenario, choose a place that best fits:
- "This is what I want"
- "I like this, but do not go too far";- "I could like it, try, but be careful"
- "I dislike this, so remember for the future"
- "I want to do it to my partner; my partner can move it to her/his side and place on appropriate place depending of her/his attitude towards it"
- "I think it could be interesting to try; my partner can move it to her/his side and place on appropriate place"
- I don't want to do it to my partner (only I can change it)"

Set up the cards >>
Choose the level of the game from the drop-down menu among: "Dressed", "Soft", "Harder". Choose "How many" between: "one or two" or "more than a two" (should a partner card be used or not). Choose "Timer?" between "use" or "do not use" (should the timer card be used).
The cards were automatically shuffled after each choice and are now ready for the game.
You can also prepare additional objects intended to be used in the game.
Everything is prepared now for the beginning of the game.

Choose the player >>
The next player to take the task card can be chosen in a couple of different ways: she/he could be next in the circle, or could be a winner (or loser) of any other simple game: "choose a smaller card", dice, or spin the bottle...

Take a task card and follow the instructions >>

Continue the game >>

We wish you more fun and better sex! >>

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Any instructions (except legal ones) are subject to change and adjustment. Think about your partner and yourselves >>

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